Sitting with it...

I honestly do look at most situations in life with "what did we learn". Right now, I am dealing with some challenging work situations. This current situation is making me learn...forcing me to learn something. One thing I am learning is that although I don't back down from conflict, I want it resolved. You can say what you want to say, and I will say what I want to say, but then I want it resolved. So I am learning to "sit with unresolved conflict". VERY tough for me. I am a resolver. But, there is always something to learn in life and I am learning to "sit with it". Makes me super uncomfortable. Will I back down in my beliefs for resolution? Nope. So when a girl won't back down, she better learn to deal with the world NOT being resolved. Unresolved. I am going to blame my astrological sign, the Taurus, entirely for this character trait. We are clear people. We are passionate and opinionated. But we are real resolvers. The whole "bull" thing is bull. We aren't stubborn at all. I know a lot of Taurus (is that Taurai?) and I would say most of us apologize before our significant others ever do. So my point is that we are strong - but clear. Passionate but problem solvers. So to SIT w/ conflict just doesn't work for me. But I don't rule the world so I must learn to adjust. My adjustment this week is clearly one thing - letting the elephant be in the room....whether I am comfy with that or not.